Here in my car
I feel safest of all
I can lock all my doors
It’s the only way to live
In cars
“Cars” by Gary Numan (1980)
This first verse contains great lyrics relating to Asperger’s.
No wonder; as its writer Gary Numan (the 1980′s pop star) was actually diagnosed with Asperger’s.
He portrays a sense of comfort inside; away from preying eyes. One place special and calming to him.
Also there’s a hint too of real fascination in mechanical objects (more on this at the end of this post).
Here’s the video to this 80′s electro pop classic:
Gary Numan had a long and distinguished career as a pop star.
Diverse musicians such as Davie Bowie, Marilyn Manson, Beck and David Grohl (Foo Fighters and Nirvana) all revere him.
It was not until he was an adult he realised that he had Asperger’s. It was recognised by his wife.
In an interview in 2001 with The Sunday Times he said:
“Polite conversation has never been one of my strong points.
Just recently I actually found out that I’d got a mild form of Asperger’s Syndrome which basically means I have trouble interacting with people.
For years, I couldn’t understand why people thought I was arrogant, but now it all makes a bit more sense.”
It shows the limitless potential of people Asperger’s. When a man with significant social issues can achieve No.1 hit records, No.1 albums, and hold sell out tours.
So be careful not to pigeon hole what any child with Asperger’s “can” or Can’t” do.
As with any of us – the more we believe we can do something, the more likely we are to do it.
And to finish off a quick point on special interests. Whether it’s cars, planes, dinosaurs, science fiction or whatever.
One of these topics are often fascinating for children with Asperger’s. And it’s great when they can hook up with kids who have similar interests.
Several weeks ago a mum emailed to tell ask if I knew of any children whose special interest is fans. As in the fans which blow and cool you down; not celebrity fans!
So if your child loves fan – leave a short comment below. And I’ll find a way to connect you up, maybe by Facebook.
In fact if this idea of matching up kids (maybe through Facebook) by interests appeals let me know . . .
Leave a comment below with your child’s interest and I’ll look at how we can move this forward.
Until next time,
Dave Angel
